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Cut the kidney to save the child: Mom why "chicken escape"

The reporter Jiang Gewei special correspondent Huang Qinghua Yang Muxuan

Liu Fei: "! The world is ridiculous I taste much a nobody mom,http://www.xinhelan.com/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=!"

Liu Hongrong: "If the son is not the case, you are afraid of death, I have to call you die!"

Zhujie Xiu: "I one of the problems, even if the kidney is good, gave me the doll house and into a basket case and could not do two live, you (Liu Hongrong) support it ah you always want me to donate a kidney doll, into account.? Debu long-term. "

This is North Sichuan Guangyuan Jiange Miaoxiang Liu Hongrong a dialogue.

Uremic dialysis boys their own money

August 18, 2011, Sichuan University, West China Hospital ward. Liu Fei has lived here for nearly half of the time, in this half, the boats have to do every day is an intravenous drip, do dialysis to sustain his life. Boats lying quietly in bed, he felt a little headache. This is the first 12 days he was hospitalized due to yesterday before doing four hours of dialysis, he was very tired at the moment. According to doctors, the boats are very optimistic about the current condition of his kidneys has been completely necrotic,woolrich donna, if you do not perform kidney transplant as soon as possible, this young life will quietly fade away.

Liu Fei is Guangyuan Jiange, he lived in the mountains. Liu Fei two and a half, the parents went to Guangdong to go to work. Over the years, Liu Fei has been followed by grandparents and grandparents live. Last November, Reading High School in Guangyuan Liu Fei sword state middle school with a fever, general weakness, to the hospital for a check, the first diagnosis of anemia, after diagnosed with double kidney failure, uremia. A month later, the parents came to Chengdu accompanied Liu Fei, was admitted to the West China Hospital for treatment. Last year,http://www.yqtxt.net/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, Chinese New Year is Liu Fei these years, for the first time with their parents over the years. Due to dialysis three times a week, parents rented a house in Cuqiao, Liu Fei Zhu Jiexiu mother lived in Chengdu, Guangyuan Liu Hongrong then returned to work. April Zhujie Xiu also back home.

"Worried about the father of a man too tired to run around outside." Dumbo inspired sufferers Liang Tao again, learn from the friction of the sample run. Because inpatient hospital fee is too expensive, boats had rented a house in the suburbs, go to the hospital every day to do a hemodialysis treatment. After seeing patients again Liang Tao ran Mount money, Liu parents flew in 1900 dollars, bought an electric tricycle. Since December last year, nearly half of the time, that is, eight o'clock basic life boats out to open tricycle operators, the daily income is thirty or forty dollars, in the afternoon arrived at the West China Hospital, 20 km away, to do hemodialysis treatment.

Mothers do go back before transplant

Hospital told Liu Hongrong couple, Liu Fei, the only way to salvation is to donate a kidney. According to the doctor introduced Tang Wanxin, Liu Fei, the underlying disease is chronic glomerulonephritis, renal insufficiency appeared, and has been developed to the stage uremia. Liu Fei belong renal disease has completely lost the stage, we must rely on long-term dialysis to sustain life. "If you want to have normal kidney function, then you have to do a kidney transplant." Watching his son can only rely on dialysis to sustain life, together and made a decision - to donate a kidney. By the end of 2010, the couple are in the West China Hospital were examined, the results show and son, is a B-type blood.

Subsequently, Zhu Jiexiu to the notary office conducted a notary, for a variety of procedures, agreed to donate a kidney to his son. On a deed carry, reporters saw this a while statement: I voluntarily donate a kidney transplant organ to cure his son Liu Fei, and voluntarily assume any risks and adverse consequences arising from the transplant. Inscribed position, handwriting rightly says Zhu Jiexiu name. April this year, the hospital notified Liu Fei, a kidney transplant can be performed, and also prepared to lend money lobbied for surgery. However, there are different views Zhujie Xiu. After doing the matching, Zhu Jiexiu in Chengdu and Guangyuan find several hospitals for tests, found that they have chronic bronchitis, rheumatism,http://www.yqtxt.net/home.php?mod=spacecp&ac=blog&blogid=, lumbar disc herniation and other diseases. "If you donate a kidney, and certainly there are sequels." Zhu Jiexiu told her husband. "When typing say agree upon her to surgery is not done." said, in order to convince his wife to donate a kidney, he promised to take care of by his wife after kidney donation, do not want her to work again, but has not agree. In a text message sent to his wife, said: you stand back, you will not find us all things? Zhu Jiexiu then replied: You want to be too naive it. Before long, Zhu Jiexiu from Chengdu to Guangyuan go back.

May 15, and his wife Liu Hongrong also talked about the matter, but Zhu Jiexiu still would not budge. Angrily, Liu Hongrong took her cell phone and ID card, the couple are living apart, no longer meet. Liu Hongrong also said, then we should not donate a kidney and Zhu Jiexiu divorce.

By the end of July, to work in Guangdong. That this message has been silent boats. Since then, Liu Fei QQ signature wrote, "The world is ridiculous! I'm as much a nobody taste of mom!"

Mother absent son's "Thanksgiving List"

With the departure of his wife, son to be born lopsided. "Preoperative booklet and other information away from the hospital and refused to donate a kidney." Liu Ying (physician's assistant) recalled to reporters, which allow doctors to greatly surprised, because the doctor seems, Liu Fei mother's body situation, there is nothing wrong for kidney donation. But for those who have decided not to donate, the hospital can only respect the decision of the parties is not mandatory to donate.

"If there were a sudden end of the day life, I wish I could quietly leave,hogan prezzi, at least, I do not worry because this dispute." Liu Fei know, because of his parents' stalemate sky, he refused to talk in front of reporters his mother.

"Thanks to those who look at them in my life, gave me a warm pro-people!" Liu fly reporters talk more gratitude, and gratitude in his list, the exception does not appear Zhujie Xiu, his mother. "First, my aunt, a son to me than to be kissed loved ones," the aunt Tanggui Qing Liu Fei, the boats get sick this time, has been the guardian of the boats around, "Help me Dafan, tease I am happy, even at the bedside night escort. If you do not mind, please let me call your mom soon, okay? "

"Then my father .45 years old, he learned that the day of my illness, old age almost overnight. You work hard, Daddy!"

"Next, I want to thank is my 'uncle' Liang Tao again,moncler uomo outlet, saying it was his uncle, in fact, he is one of my patients, the only difference is that my mom walked out before the kidney transplant, and his father in a few years prior to donate his own kidney. "

In memory of Liu Fei, Zhu Jiexiu but is a country with "Mom" title strangers. "From what I remember, my mother and father working outside year round, especially in less time to spend three of us, I think my mother enough to care about me."

For the mother refused to donate a kidney, heart boats seems to be a heavy blow, expression is very tangled. Aunt Tanggui Qing told reporters from her mother walked out of the day,spaccio woolrich, the mood becomes irritable boats a lot,moncler outlet, this big boy of 18 years because of her mother's departure created a very strong emotional resistance, but, in front of outsiders He habitually shut their hearts.

After many setbacks mother returned

Zhu Jiexiu July 24 left Sichuan. In Guangdong, a window and door station leaves the factory, you can earn about 2,000 yuan a month. said she remembered his son's condition during the work day, "I often could not eat even rice." "I'm sorry, he did not say to go soon." In addition, she also continued to receive relatives and friends call telephone, mostly advised her to donate a kidney, some words very intense. Turning to his original choice to leave reason: originally wanted to donate a kidney,http://onigdesign.com/error.html, and later physical examination found that he had bronchitis, cervical arthritis,louis vuitton bauletto, rheumatism and other diseases,http://phpwind.hkcnidc.com/read.php?tid=10813089&ds=1, "the house was donated two patients, and he was a man, but to supply."

August 18, at her husband's persuasion, Zhu Jiexiu back to Chengdu. At this point, it has not met for four months mother looked slightly embarrassed. Zhu Jiexiu saw his son lying on the bed, looked very nervous, two hands together, standing in the doorway has been reluctant to go in. And Liu Fei is also urging the others, only to bow shouted loudly, "Mom." In patients reminder, Liu Fei was holding his mother's hand and said: "Mom, I do not blame you, as long as you come back to take care of me." Although there is no how to talk between mother and child, but had champagne still very happy. He also gave his wife and son, said the family will stay together after re-cultivate their feelings. said he did not do often to blame the mother's responsibility in Guangdong, "At that time did not dare to face the reality, because the family simply can not afford the medical expenses, chose to escape." After seeing media coverage for Liu Fei after I changed my mind decided to come back to save his son. "So many good people are concerned about him,http://zazna.com/selection/index.php?item/create_form/1, I Zeneng not save him."

August 17 afternoon, Zhu Jiexiu told her husband, there is no problem as long as the body, he was willing to donate a kidney to save his son,spaccio moncler, "My son is my body out of the flesh, and I am sure to give him medical treatment." Faced with criticism, Zhu Jiexiu think that when they did not escape,moncler outlet, nor is it does not want to save his son, but can not afford the medical expenses of the face,moncler bambino outlet, she did not think the surgery thing. "Before she considered more comprehensive, I had to force her not to." Liu Hongrong said that these days he and his wife talked a lot, but also know Zhu Jiexiu original idea. Now he knows that after surgery at home with two patients, the economic pressure is certainly much larger. But he said he would take care of his wife and son.

At present,http://e-learning.tsu.ge/login/index.php?item/create_form/1, the hospital has given the mother and son's surgery registering they are expected to perform a kidney transplant next month. However, faced with the surgery cost a hundred thousand dollars, to see the hope of a family of three fell into silence.

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Counselors Tao Ping: the moral high ground when we stand to evaluate a person's time, often biased. Zhu Jiexiu undoubtedly want to treat his son, otherwise she could not do matching. The status quo working outside year round,louboutin femme, the economy is not very well-off, so that the sense of crisis in her heart a little bit of accumulation, such as her husband's neglect, and even she was worried about their sick bodies raised when her husband did not understand,tiffany outlet, or even coercion; coupled with the long-term because she does not live together with their children,woolrich parka, feeling relatively weak, all her worries. And Zhu Jiexiu himself unable to resolve these pressures, so she subconsciously chose to flee. If we change the perspective to understand her, give her some reminders, maybe she would not have so much fear, it will not give birth to so many contradictions.

Professor of Law, Xiangtan University loving Europe: from the moral and legal point of view, the mother is under no obligation to provide a kidney for their adult children, let alone likely sacrificing his own premise; however, as a mother, she moves Obviously hurt public perception of "Motherhood" the term,http://thehospoda.com/kunena/13-living-here/10133/reply, many people will not consciously think, she's not a good mother.

Sichuan Provincial Academy of Social Sciences, Professor Hu Guangwei: standing legal perspective, approach is understandable. And even standing on the moral level, people should not be condemned Zhujie Xiu choice. This is a voluntary organ donation, we can not condemn the mother, said she refused to help. Taking into account the family, ethics, did not say the mother must give his son to donate a kidney. For Zhujie Xiu's decision, the family should be respected, and try to think in terms of standing by her.